Guys and dolls

Today I was accused of “You are such a guy”. It would be hypocritical for me to deny it. After all, I’ve accused others of “You are such a girl.”
There was an article in the newspaper yesterday about the differences between men and women. I suggest you read it yourself, but in essence it stated that women dwell on feelings while men try to move from feelings to actions. Men with problems are content to NOT talk about them whereas women might throw a pity party. Both solutions may help or hurt the people involved.
Five minutes after I read it, a co-worker came to me with a problem. A friend of his, that I only knew peripherally, had a brother who had died. He was wondering what he should do the next time they talked. Because of the article, my suggestion was “I’m sorry for your loss. Let’s play some poker.”
I showed it to him and he read the article and agreed.
It was like a weird feedback loop. The man used the article describing the method men use to solve problems to help solve a problem via said method.
Pfft. You are such a guy.